Suzanne has a beautiful house, gorgeous children going to the right schools, paid for by the charming husband who everyone likes. Their marriage is the envy of all their friends. The publicly attentive and loving husband. However, behind closed doors it is a different story….
For the people we support, Christmas can be a time of extreme hardship. We see families without enough food, elderly suffering isolation and many without safe or secure shelter. Please help us provide vital support this Christmas.
Adele Heasman has been a member of the Management Committee of Community Northern Beaches since 2002 and was nominated as President at the recent Annual General Meeting. As well as being a wife, mother and President, Adele also works in the Office of James Griffin MP for Manly as Senior Electorate Officer. We asked Adele to share a little about herself.
Until we can collectively see beyond those labels and see the person and their unique value and worthiness of love and belonging, then we will continue to see people falling through the cracks into social isolation.
The 2018 Annual Northern Beaches DV Network and Zonta Northern Beaches Breakfast was held on White Ribbon Day, 23 November, at the The International Management College, Manly. It was wonderful to see over 150 attendees from the local community come together to help stand up and speak out against violence against women.
Anona Le Page (Nonnie) is the Welfare and Domestic Violence Worker at Community Northern Beaches (CNB) . Nonnie has occupied this role for 6 years, and works closely with external and internal services to provide help and support for individuals whom have experienced domestic and family violence.
“On one extreme I receive phone calls from women feeling they are in an unhappy marriage, but are unsure if their situation is identified as domestic violence to the other extreme - receiving a call from a women at Woolworths borrowing someone’s phone, who needed to be picked up as she had fled the house in her bathrobe.’”
On Friday 12 October 2019, Community Northern Beaches held their 2018 Annual General Meeting. A warm and friendly atmosphere prevailed as those who care about the organisation came together to cover official business, thank some of the organisations and people who have supported them during the past year and elect the Management Committee for the year ahead.
Tsering arrived in Australia in 2014 and has lived in the Northern Beaches area for 4 years with her 2 teenage children, firstly in Beacon Hill and now in Brookvale. Her son has recently finished university where he studied engineering. She loves meeting up with Kay every week and they have developed a lasting friendship.
Thank you to The Real Tracey Spicer and The Sisterhood for an amazing night. It was a sell out event with over 300 locals experiencing the wit and wisdom of Tracey Spicer who generously donated her time to help local charities. $12,000 was raised on the evening to be evenly distributed between Community Northern Beaches , Northern Beaches Women's Shelter, Dalwood Spilstead and Bringa Women's and Children's Refuge.
Lorraine is one of the first volunteers to sign up to the Community Northern Beaches ESL Conversation Project. Earlier this year, it became apparent that although many new Tibetan migrants have completed courses and are now qualified for work, they may not be taken on by employers due to their lack of English skills. Thus, the ESL Conversation programme was born.
As manager of the Northern Beaches’ largest community hub, John’s role is a diverse one including responsibility for the strategic and everyday management of the centre. Starting the day before the centre’s doors open allows time to focus on admin so that when the doors are open, his focus is on people. In John’s words “people come before paper”. He chose to join the not-for-profit sector as he finds working in smaller, under resourced environments forces him to think outside the box, act with agility and a strength of purpose.
Join weaving workshops with local artists and members of the Northern Beaches Aboriginal community and contribute to a public artwork that will be displayed on Stuart Somerville Bridge in Queenscliff. This project forms part of the 2018 Gai-mariagal Festival.
We are thrilled to announce that Daniel Peterson, our wonderful Homeless Outreach Worker, is 1 of 6 finalists in the Westfield Local Heroes program for his work in promoting social well-being and harmony in our community.
The grant will be put towards supporting the immediate and practical needs of people sleeping rough in the Northern Beaches.
It's all down to a public vote now, and voting closes very shortly! 3 out of the 6 organisations will be awarded $10,000 each. So, the more votes that Daniel receives, the more chance we have of being awarded much needed funding.
Please follow the link below to place your vote. It's really quick and easy:
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Manly is a beautiful area of Sydney, yet sometimes we forget that not everyone living here has a roof over their head and a safe place to sleep. Homelessness doesn’t discriminate, and can affect anyone. Daniel Peterson is Community Northern Beach’s Homeless Outreach Worker and offers support to people who are experiencing, or at risk of homelessness. ‘Once I find someone who needs my support, I’ll sit down with them and assess their needs, and work out how we are going to help them, both in the centre and also with external pathways like referrals for housing, or other wrap-around support,’ Daniel says. ‘It’s really important because we are identifying people who need help and we’re advocating for them, we’re able to be a voice for them.’
In the last 5 years, the rate of homelessness on the Northern Beaches has increased by 63%, and Daniel agrees it’s a big problem, even if it’s not as obvious as in other areas of Sydney. ‘There’s certainly a lot of couch surfers and people who are living in cars on the Northern Beaches, so it doesn’t appear as obvious but it’s definitely there. I think in Australia there are some that are quick to judge those experiencing homelessness, as they think they just need to get a job, be disciplined, work hard and sort their problems out themselves. But having that kind of viewpoint doesn’t acknowledge the complexities of issues that people are experiencing and the trauma that some have experienced. It’s hard to empathise if you haven't been through the same circumstances.’
The drop-in centre at Community Northern Beaches offers free hot coffee/tea and pastries during the week, as well as food and supplies for people in need. The door is always open for anyone wanting to come in for a chat, or to seek help from Daniel or any one of our workers or volunteers. ‘For someone to reach out and say ‘I want to hear your story’, ‘I want to know what’s happened’, it helps people feel validated and not so isolated. 'Isolation is a huge problem for people experiencing homelessness, constantly feeling ignored and marginalised from society for so long. We all need to work towards de-stigmatising homelessness and be as inclusive as we can possibly be'.
Daniel’s role is diverse, and keeps him constantly busy. Anywhere from two to ten individuals will come to the centre or call on the phone each day, seeking help, advice or sometimes just to chat. He is either based at the drop-in centre, or out and about seeking out people sleeping rough. ‘I’d encourage anyone feeling concerned about this issue to not be afraid to talk to those experiencing homelessness, even if you feel you have nothing to offer them, just talk, and more importantly, listen. You’ll find you hear so much trauma and hurt, but also so many incredible stories. Reaching out in this way will have an impact, and you can refer them to us. Homelessness is always going to exist in our culture unfortunately, as we can’t stop mental health issues from occurring and we can’t stop relationship breakdowns in people’s lives. What we can do is let those experiencing homelessness know they’re not alone and that there are people out there wanting to help them get back on their feet'.
With winter and cold weather fast approaching, Community Northern Beaches is currently seeking sleeping bags, beanies, socks and backpacks to help those in need. We really appreciate when the community donates supplies, as it enables us to create positive relationships with our clients and helps us provide better care. If you have any items to donate please call 9977 1066 or please drop them off during the week from 10-3pm at 12 Wentworth St, Manly.
Dhondup Dhondup – the story of a Tibetan migrant now supporting other migrants
We are lucky enough to have a large community of Tibetan individuals and families living in the Northern Beaches. Some have lived here their whole lives, and others have arrived only recently. At Community Northern Beaches we want to make sure everyone feels at home when they arrive, and want to make this transition as easy as possible.
Dhondup is employed as our Tibetan Settlement Worker at Community Northern Beaches, and helps the Tibetan community with a wide range of services and support. He helps Tibetans to connect with local service providers (banks, Centrelink, job centres, employment agents, etc) to develop their eligibility for citizenship, and helps them to connect with other Tibetans and others families in the community. Dhondup’s position is funded by the Government’s Settlement Services International (SSI) and his job also includes co-ordinating and arranging English tutoring, driving courses, swimming lessons, and other services to assist with Tibetan integration into Australian life.
Whilst Dhondup is devoted to providing support and helping other Tibetans, his own story of growing up in Tibet and how he arrived in Australia is nothing short of remarkable.
Dhondup was born in a small rural village in Tibet in 1984, a country occupied by the Chinese Communist government since 1959. His family were poor farmers and could not afford to send his older siblings to the expensive local primary school. By the time Dhondup was born his older siblings had been working for some time and fortunately there was enough money in the family to send him to primary school.
When Dhondup got to high school, the Chinese patriotic re-education policy determined that the only language of instruction in the state funded schools was Mandarin, and the focus of all lessons was on the indoctrination of students in the ideology of the communist regime. Dhondup’s family eventually found the financial resources to send him to a Tibetan Middle School where he could learn in the Tibetan language, study the Tibetan religion (Buddhism) and learn about Tibetan culture.
At the age of seventeen, Dhondup was arrested for his involvement in resisting the occupation of Tibet by the Chinese, and he was sent to prison for 2 years, including 3 months of solitary detention. During his years in prison, the prison medical authorities forcibly and very regularly took large vials of blood from him (and other Tibetan prisoners) to use for the blood transfusions of Chinese soldiers on the borders. This blood-taking, plus the poor nutrition and conditions in the prison, meant that Dhondup was very weak when he was released, and forced to use a wheelchair.
After a year’s recuperation at home, Dhondup was no longer in a wheelchair and he realised that there was no future for him in occupied Tibet, so he escaped. He walked for 24 days before he eventually reached Nepal where he registered with the UN under the UN Charter. There he learnt that, under the Dalai Lama, the Tibetan leader in exile, he could complete his schooling, which he did in the humanity arts steam. After this he went to the University of Delhi in India where he graduated with Political Science Honours in 2014.
When he had completed his studies, Dhondup submitted an application for a humanitarian visa application (established for people who are legally ‘stateless’) to migrate to Australia, a process that was established through a collaboration between the Central Tibetan Administration and Australian Immigration. His application was successful and in February 2015 he arrived in Sydney and he was granted a permanent residency visa to live in Australia. He studied ‘English for Academic studies’ at the Ultimo TAFE College and then completed a Certificate IV to become a Lab Technician in a Pathology Lab.
In 2017 Dhondup saw a job advert for the position of ‘Tibetan Settlement Worker’ for the Community Northern Beaches. He had previously done a lot of work as a volunteer in NGO’s and had been a high school prefect and the President of the Students Union at University. He had also been an executive member of the Tibetan Youth Congress in Delhi and President of the Student Human Rights association in secondary school, all of which demonstrated his excellent leadership skills. Dhondup applied for and was given this position, working, 22 hours a week helping other Tibetans settle into Australia. He moved to a flat in Dee Why (where he lives with another Tibetan). On weekends he works in Customer Service in Woolworths to earn extra money.
Dhondup hasn’t seen his family since he was 17 and really misses his mother in particular. They are not able to get passports to leave Tibet and it would be impossible for him to get a visa to visit them.
Despite this sadness and despite the hardships of living as a new migrant, Dhondup says that he loves living here in Australia where Human Rights are protected and freedom of speech and expression is preserved. He says he loves being able to think, speak and do whatever he chooses, and he loves the fact that there are so many opportunities available to him. He also appreciates that the Australian government supports the preservation of Tibetan culture and the identity of Buddhists which focuses on compassion, harmony, living peacefully and putting others before self. He sees this Buddhist philosophy as the greatest contribution that Tibetan Buddhists can make to Australian society.